The one way I have found to merge... is to have everyone start to join the other alliance. There is no "Merge" button. Once members have departed the old alliance, the Marshall will have to choose to disband the old alliance.. This is a 7 day waiting period, as we do not want someone to hit it and be like "oh no" i didn't mean to disband the alliance.
Currently the game does not support sending resources or reinforcements to a member of another alliance. Resources was never supported, and in the beginning you could reinforce any base, however some players misused reinforcements creating spam bases to create troops and support their main. Therefore, now you may only support allies.

