Being serious is not a problem. The problem arise when we forget that Plarium is just a company that has a platform that provide fun and communication. Fun that we can mold in many ways. We can use the platform to solve/work on our marriage problem, talk to relatives and friends who migrated to another country, Use it as students to discuss, and share notes. Use it to bond with our kins children ect, use it as professors to solve that bugging question about Neutrinos.
But in turn we use it to remind us of our problems. We come here angry, an instead of using the league chat to try and tell a joke, and thus heal our anger spirit, we let it out on the small guy next door. We in turn make many unhappy, and trap them in a series of anger, which get transferred from person to person until the entire league is angry. Then when the little guy leave the game, and then punching backs are depleted and we get even sadder.
I solve these by asking myself a question every time I log into the game. I am having fun? are people who interact with me having fun?. before I logout I again ask myself that question, and record the answer.