Nothing wrong with asking, its a common question, in fact it was aked  in a different manner just a few days ago here,in the link below.

https://plarium.com/forum/en/vikings-war-of-clans/713_ideas-and-suggestions/191582_level-28-should-not-be-able-to-attack-lvl-9--/

Part of the problem is that the game rushes you at the beginning, and encourages to play speedily, this isnt necessarily a good idea as you can get in too deep before you know how to play.

Once you get past level 5 palace, and the three day free peace shield, you are at the mercy of every other player.

If you start in a brand new kingdom, in theory a player should be less exposed to what you describe than was often the previous case, however, lots of players know how to play the game and have money to spare to buy faster progress.

As one of the ways they get the kind of experience you describe,is by attacking other players,this why you are in this predicament.

If you are Palace 5 and under,and without the shield they cannot steal any resources from you, but they still may attack you to kill your soldiers,to inhibit your progress, so this is another reason you will be attacked continuosly.

You need to get gold for a shield and join a clan with a leader that knows how to play and will help you learn.

The game rewards higher level players for tile hitting other players on resource tiles (no matter what level). This is now just a play style for higher players to tile hit pretty much anything they see. Why wouldn't you bully everyone smaller than you when you get rewarded for it? It's the primary reason my friends are quitting. I probably will too. It's demoralizing and it feels like just a money grab. Whats crazy, is I am level 30+ and it just keeps getting worse as I level.  I wish Plarium would take more of a user experience approach instead of a sales approach.