It would just be nice if we could move the stronghold to another location in the kingdom for starters.

I agree with both these ideas. Any ounce of forgiveness when it comes to moving a stronghold would have been very welcome. As it stands, choosing a location to start a stronghold at is a huge commitment. Like.. to the point of causing real life stress, and then if you end up having to move.. fuggettaboudit. It's miserable. There are too many factors set in stone on a players account, stronghold location shouldn't be one of them but with the way things are.. it may as well be. The costs involved in moving a stronghold are formidable and potentially damning to those of us that face no other good options.