Not so far time ago, everyone celebrated Valentine's day. And I have a few question:
Do you play with your girlfriend/boyfriend in Vikings or in any other game? Or maybe with your relatives, friends from real.
Very topical topic in fact, because as psychologists say - have fun with your girlfriend, because joint positive emotions are remembered and this has a positive effect on relationships.
I started the game together with a friend. Btw he and his wife are playing together :)
I need guide "How to get your girlfriend to play video games" :D
Rocketman said:
I need guide "How to get your girlfriend to play video games" :D
lol. I'm not so strong in this.
I play a number of games, some war games with my husband ... but not Vikings War of Clans. He does not have the patience to play a game for months and months. He wants to play for a couple hours and that be it. Maybe I will set him up and maintain his account so that he can come in and play with me sometimes (he seems open to doing this). That way he can just play and fight and not have to do all the other stuff ... lol.
As far as getting your girlfriends/wives to play with you ... well maybe do what I suggested that I do with my husband ... if they don't like war games maybe bargain with them that you will do something with them for a few hours if they play vikings with you for a few hours ... maybe she will get hooked on it ... lol ... this is a trick I used with my daughter before as far as us spending time together ... lol ... or offer to do something for her that she has wanted you to do (even things like cleaning the house ... rofl ... :) )The nice trick, CIM. Unfortunately, my wife like more online RPG games with customizing characters. But sometimes we play together on ps to our 'common' games.
Now I play Vikings game with my friends (2 good friends we started the game together), also I met a lot of good peoples in the game. :)
CIM said:
I play a number of games, some war games with my husband ... but not Vikings War of Clans. He does not have the patience to play a game for months and months. He wants to play for a couple hours and that be it. Maybe I will set him up and maintain his account so that he can come in and play with me sometimes (he seems open to doing this). That way he can just play and fight and not have to do all the other stuff ... lol.
As far as getting your girlfriends/wives to play with you ... well maybe do what I suggested that I do with my husband ... if they don't like war games maybe bargain with them that you will do something with them for a few hours if they play vikings with you for a few hours ... maybe she will get hooked on it ... lol ... this is a trick I used with my daughter before as far as us spending time together ... lol ... or offer to do something for her that she has wanted you to do (even things like cleaning the house ... rofl ... :) )
Whether there was a situation when your beloved perceived the game, what you want to play with him, but he didn’t, as “work” with this approach? Something undesirable, smth he “need” to do for “reward” ? Or you both alright with dat ? :) Bcz it seems like that trick can work diametrically opposite, but i’m not sure.
As one of the all solutions will be cool to describe the game to your beloved using aspects dat he like (oh rly? :D) smth like a teamwork. All couples like teamwork, i think. And if you will say, for example: “Oh, this is just so cool, we can make our clan and invent some strategies, assault our enemies together!” Dream Team etc :) That will be big plus for motivating to play with you!
Such a good advices, ty!)) I trying to help my girlfriend start her game career with Heavy Rain)
Just to make it clear ... it is what one can call compromise ... we each spend time with each other doing something the other wants to do together ... so yea if it was being covertly manipulative ... might would backfire ... but when it is upfront and people understand that they are giving and taking IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP with each other ... well ...CIM said:
I play a number of games, some war games with my husband ... but not Vikings War of Clans. He does not have the patience to play a game for months and months. He wants to play for a couple hours and that be it. Maybe I will set him up and maintain his account so that he can come in and play with me sometimes (he seems open to doing this). That way he can just play and fight and not have to do all the other stuff ... lol.
As far as getting your girlfriends/wives to play with you ... well maybe do what I suggested that I do with my husband ... if they don't like war games maybe bargain with them that you will do something with them for a few hours if they play vikings with you for a few hours ... maybe she will get hooked on it ... lol ... this is a trick I used with my daughter before as far as us spending time together ... lol ... or offer to do something for her that she has wanted you to do (even things like cleaning the house ... rofl ... :) )Whether there was a situation when your beloved perceived the game, what you want to play with him, but he didn’t, as “work” with this approach? Something undesirable, smth he “need” to do for “reward” ? Or you both alright with dat ? :) Bcz it seems like that trick can work diametrically opposite, but i’m not sure.
As one of the all solutions will be cool to describe the game to your beloved using aspects dat he like (oh rly? :D) smth like a teamwork. All couples like teamwork, i think. And if you will say, for example: “Oh, this is just so cool, we can make our clan and invent some strategies, assault our enemies together!” Dream Team etc :) That will be big plus for motivating to play with you!
CIM said:
Just to make it clear ... it is what one can call compromise ... we each spend time with each other doing something the other wants to do together ... so yea if it was being covertly manipulative ... might would backfire ... but when it is upfront and people understand that they are giving and taking IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP with each other ... well ...
Nah, you’re right, just interesting how it works. Got your thought direction at all :) just saw how it was at my friend’s couples and wants to know smb else experience in this question. In my opinion, this way rly good for improve each other in spheres whut we’re not touch without pushing us from outside. Sometimes it can be very useful to leave our comfort zone but also it can be very funny exp tho :D
