loki said:

  i wanted to re-locate close to my brothers city. When I entered the coordinates I ended up 375 miles away from him!!!!!!

How did this happen??

Where did you enter coordinates? Go to your brother's city on the map and click the (red) "Find vacant lots" icon ...

... and you'll receive a list of possible locations in the vicinity. 

But make sure you check the distances since there's no guarantee that vacant lots wil always be available close by.

Cheers

P.