I kow someone who plays but can not find them, how would I find them

Maybe it isn't, but it strikes me a bit odd that you would know someone who plays this game, but not well enough for them to tell you who they are and where to find them.

I joined this game and I loved it up until now. I've had nothing but issues the whole time I've played and nothing is explained properly even in live chat. I became the tribe leader by default right when I joined it. I eventually promoted someone to r4. Great person. He promoted a new person who deleted my entire tribe and moved to a different tribe. He has been doing this to people throughout the game and the helpine don't care. They literally told me not to promote people I don't trust despite me not promoting them and the game not allowing me to approve or disapprove an action that I as the leader should have the option to do. When I said this to the helpline, the response I got was don't promote someone you don't trust and is there anything I can help you with. If tribe leaders think that they should get an option to approve or disapprove a decision that would affect their tribes including my issue and war on another tribe, join me in trolling the creators until this happens, otherwise this game is only good if you aren't the chief, but then you don't get the rewards.