My Lord 

Please bear in mind that personal quest are generated by a very complex system. its not possible to forsee what kind of quest one will get on the next time. You just have to pass those you can win, when you get them. 

You issue can be fixed by doing what everyone does in the game. have your friends put some archers next to your cattle, either as a siege or as reinforcement. You can kill these units during PvP or when you do quests. That is how many players get around the kill units quests. 

How can a personal event turn around an give you the same thing after doing 1 other personal event, I had passed  on doing the destroy units,,   can't find any  troops out in the land of Darkshire ,,Next to impossible, then to   go to Beacons or forts an sacrifice my troops for points is unreal an also can get terrible repercussion's from the  owners of the Beacons an Forts,.. SO I let  a 3 hr and 30 minutes go by to do new personal events, I get  raid  a  castle an  to get at least 30,000 in resources , so I did that,  so what comes up next  to do for my personal event,, Yea you guessed it DESTROY UNITS!!!!! I am totally sicken by this, How can it be????

How can a personal event turn around an give you the same thing after doing 1 other personal event, I had passed  on doing the destroy units,,   can't find any  troops out in the land of Darkshire ,,Next to impossible, then to   go to Beacons or forts an sacrifice my troops for points is unreal an also can get terrible repercussion's from the  owners of the Beacons an Forts,.. SO I let  a 3 hr and 30 minutes go by to do new personal events, I get  raid  a  castle an  to get at least 30,000 in resources , so I did that,  so what comes up next  to do for my personal event,, Yea you guessed it DESTROY UNITS!!!!! I am totally sicken by this, How can it be????