All harsh and rude speech is Himsa. Harsh words to soldiers, neophytes, your Friends and those not in your league is Himsa. To wound the feelings of others by gesture, expression, tone of voice and unkind word is Himsa. To slight or to show deliberate discourtesy is wanton Himsa.
I forgot who told me thesePlay fairly and respectfully with others in the game if you want your league to succeed. Patience and a kind word go a lot further than hard feelings and angry actions. Stay calm and serene and most importantly take care of yourself before you do anything because league management does take a lot of time and energy. Find a great cadre of people to work with and delegate responsibilities to where everyone feels a part. Don't individualize and most of all Have fun.
Tamerin