I sent my wife a refferal link and it shows her on my phone but not on hers
is there a reason to this? she should be able to see my progress and vice versa, since it said we both would get cool rewards, so shes missing out, please help
If I'm understanding you sent her a referral link which she signed up with. This is working correctly then in that you see her progress as someone you referred. The player who was referred is not meant to see the progress of the player that referred them.