You mention that your ADHD is really bad when micromanaging your resources, but I'm not quite sure I follow.  Can you elaborate?

The challenge with Raid that I have found is that it isn't a 24/7 type of game, unless you are willing to spend.  It is a game where you focus on specific goals each day, but otherwise you build up resources.  Silver shouldn't really be a restiction once you get into the flow of things.  Where are you using all of your silver on at the moment?  

You've been playing since November, so you have seen a couple of fusion/fragment events come and go.  Have you participated in any during that time or was this the first?  They really are events that you need to plan for, and have quite a lot of resources saved up if you wish to complete.

I'm not asking these questions in an accusatory manner, I'm just trying to gauge your playstyle so that I can potentially offer some suggestions.  My only suggestion so far is that any gems you get should go towards energy rather than any other shop purchase, unless you are swimming in them, but I'm not sure if you are using gems for other things?

You mind posting your roster so we can see where you're at development wise? And what dungeon levels you are farming for Dragon, Spider, and Fire Knight? And where you are at on Clan Boss?

Fusions, and obtaining the resources to do them, is a very different story depending on the development level of your account. Perhaps we can help better with a little more info. :)

stupid mistakes  all players  the dont care about energy the farm like  crazy to get 100 energy only to have

i just fused  hellcath on my free to play account dint spend single penny i prepared over 20000 energy for  events and tons shards and everything else 

it was easy as hell

so prepare for fusions

do daily quest    all each day 

stay logged until you get energy from login reward

do advanced all quest if you have op champions

do doomtower

so calculate like this

each day

you got let say 300 energy spend 150 energy keep 150

150x 30 days is 4500 energy

300x 30 days is 9000 energy so 

you need only 4 months to get energy you need to do for fusion

20 000 to 30000 you need for fusion

for summon events if you dont have  shards ready farm green shards

i spend 3000 greenshards for event and use it as upgrade champion  events

easy points

Keyword about raid , is hoarding ! 

If it fits your mailbox and can be used later on , save it . 

The same applies to just about everything , shard , hoard till proper events or 2x or 10x  . Glyphs ? Wait until you need them for further missons , Books ? use only during cvc ...etc.. list goes on and on .. 

The best thing is to just hoard ressource you can and use whats forced upon you like daily refill , energy regen , daily login , quest ... 

If i learned anything in 2 months and helicath successful fusion , is , you either hoard or spend till late endgame 

This game teachs the value of saving.