You are very sure people are being mean to you, including being very upset at one of the other moderators here who was defending you, and threatening to report him across multiple threads. All he was doing was telling others to chill out, and on your behalf, mind you.
Honestly, these folks are legitimately giving you their best advice, taking their own personal time to type out long responses with screenshots, searching up video links, and working to help you. None of us get paid to post here. We are all spending our own personal time to do help. But if you hear anything at at blunt, or if someone asks you if you have even had time to apply the advice we have given, you react very poorly to it, and create new threads to complain about the moderators, the posters here, and act as if giving you blunt advice is the same as insulting you.
Perhaps take their advice as it is meant, as blunt/honest advice based on experience, rather than percieving it as a personal attack.