I have played around with a demytha warcaster UK build quite a bit recently so can will give some thoughts
The first is that this type of build will be running 1:1 with CB. A challenge with this is that your damage output can be quite low compared to a 2:1 build, but it is possible to still get a 3 key (or even 2 key) UMN build out of a 1:1. You do really need to have some dedicated damage champs such as Geo or Frozen Banshee though.
Speed-wise, just use this calculator https://deadwoodjedi.info/cb/41792d552aa0d818bbb84fc1159f21e48522683f. Essentially the speeds are
Demytha - 176
Warcaster - 248
DPS1 - 177
DPS2 - 186
DPS3 - 178
The only speeds that really matter are Demytha and Warcaster. The rest can be anywhere between 170 odd and 188 odd. The reason being that CD's speed is 190, so this builds a solid 1:1 team.
As you have identified, the challenge is the stun target. Crimson helm won't be a good option as CB will prefer not to target a champion with block damage. As a result, he will likely target someone else.
In my testing Torturehelm won't work either, because while his self revive is on a 3 turn CD, the issue is that when he jumps back up his turn meter is back to 0. This means that on the turn after he revives he won't get a go, and then he only gets 2 turns before the next stun attack, which isn't enough to reset it.
If you make him any faster than CB (e.g. 191) so that he can get a turn when he revives, then he will throw out the rest of the team and actually end up taking the AOE damages. If there's a tune that works I cannot find it
Edit: I haven't tried it but Gnarlhorn has a 3 turn unkillable self buff that could potentially work, though you would need to clean the stun afterwards (or bring a block debuffs on a 3 turn CD too). That said, he brings nothing else to the table at all, but he could be kept in very light gear to ensure he is always the target.