Can you please explain a bit what happened? What do you mean by "whose lair is occupied by three days"?
So, he is just blocked. You can ask abb4 to see when was this guy last active. I'm sure the answer will be "today".
As I said, you can send whatever kind of attack you want while under a block. And yes, you are right, if you hit back, you hit abb4's block, not Alejandro. This is why I said that "being blocked is not a disadvantage... on the contrary". The player is not crippled by a block in any way, and they are generally protected from the attacks. IMO, "block" should be called "protection". We on Kabam tried several times really hard to get the devs to change this, but they stubbornly refuse. :-(
Alejandro is probably hitting you to provoke you to attack the block. My suggestion: either ignore him or talk to abb4 to find a solution that'll satisfy both of you.